My Thoughts about some aspects of life

"A bag full of books is like a rickshaw puller pulling your life ahead, you just don't see it." We blame our education system. What do we get from mugging up facts and figures? These things that we study, will never be used in the future. We just study to get marks and this system pushes us to do so. Well, I use to feel the same, but soon after completing my basic(10+2) education. I realized, the syllabus and the structure was properly planned. It's not always like you have to blame someone or something to be  cool . Coz I saw many blaming and criticizing to look cool or blend with others or what, I don't understand. Now here I am talking about students of 9-10th. Even I was one of them. Those who made the curriculum are not stupid. They had given a lot of thinking in making the syllabus and choosing the subjects. At the same time I agree that it should be updated with time to cope up with modern happenings.  Each class was important, not because it will be used f...

  What do you love the most, the enjoyment of a journey or prolific fruitful destination? Deep down we know what we really want. Sometimes we become voracious and greedy to own something or have someone. Well the " someone " part is beyond my scope of discussion. Sad but true... What happens when we have/achieve that. We want more...That's human psychology. Don't you think?  Now here I am not saying that we should stop achieving or stop dreaming, it's more like you  enjoy what you are doing . Enjoying the process and journey, rather than worrying about the outcomes. Rather than seeking to achieve something, do which might make you feel happy. It doesn't worth it if you don't appreciate your paths leading to it. Coz my dear friends we all know the ultimate destination, getting old. Physically restricted to do many things. And then The End! God knows what after that. People have achieved many things in life, money, fame, etc. but the happiest one is who enjo...

  Have you ever faced a faux pas. If you don't know what "faux pas" is, it's an embarrassing or tactless act  in a social situation. Basically you feel humiliated in public because of some actions by you or your companion. Well this story is one of them. Once me and my 3 friends impulsively planed to go to domino's. Something happened!!. Instead of making us uncomfortable, we couldn't stop laughing. This story might sound stupid and so silly. So this one time, me and my friends ( Raju , Baccha ( ya i have kids ), Karode ) decided to meet at Raju's house. This was the time when we were about to go to our college for the first time. Leaving behind our home town .😓😅Quite emotional and so cliché. Right! Back to story, we all gathered at his house. Eventually domino's plan came up. We reached there, entered the restaurant, made ourselves super complacent . Like a normal group of friends. So pinhead of us, none of us brought money. And yet we ordered. Th...

     Goodness comes from within.😇😇 Kindness is contagious, it's like entropy of an isolated system which keep on increasing. You treat a person with kindness and it is reflected back to you. It takes time but it comes with much better interest. Be kind to people coz it's easy to be not !! We are social animals, we live in community. We respect our culture and each other. In this busy world only few people care about these small yet big acts of selflessness. I'm not saying that there are two kinds of people, being humble and other not being so humble. Kindness is ever-present in everyone , it's just the act and gesture with what we show and treat others. A warm gesture tells so many about your lush. It takes minuscule amount of effort to show kindness. Just let your SMILE do the work. I agree there's lot less people who are good; many are just materialistic and selfish. Yet the goodness in them (good people) balances the wrong doings of others. In those few peo...

  “All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust.” -  J.M. Barrie,(Peter Pan) In case you don't know what a pixie is, its magical creature from fairy tales. Pixie are a cheerful mischievous being. Just be happy and joyous like them.👼😇 So this One day I was just scrolling my YouTube Feed, I got one recommendation for Jim Browning's Video. Never saw his video, I thought to give it a try. OMG! He makes videos on exposing scams. From first to second and then third, all my day I was watching his videos. He explained about how scams works like pop-up scams, tech-support scams and all kind of those shits. Scammers try to get remote access and then they perform their scams. Well you should never give remote access to our system to anyone.  What really hooked me to his videos was that out of his 60 scams exposed, 58 were from India. Literally you can listen some of his (scammers) friends curse in Hindi. Well this is not good. Right!! From his channel ...

Why do you keep secrets? From whom you keep it, and with whom you share. Let me know in the comment section.  One may keep secret to protect oneself from an awkward and embarrassing situation. We share about love, crush, or lust with very few people. Some are serious af , like some dark past which we don't want anyone to know. We have many secrets, some are just stupid and funny. When I was in primary and middle school, children use to make secrets just to make other people jealous. So there are lots of reasons for it. Secret sometime makes one very anxious. Even though it has nothing to do with us, but the fact that it is untold to us, makes us feel more needy to know that secret. At least I felt that. Let's take an example there's one person say Rohit and he has two friends Manu and Garvit. Now one day Rohit and Garvit were sitting together. They both looked at Manu and start whispering. It's natural for Manu to feel isolated. And he wants to know what they are talkin...