Journey Vs Destinaion

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What do you love the most, the enjoyment of a journey or prolific fruitful destination? Deep down we know what we really want.

Sometimes we become voracious and greedy to own something or have someone. Well the "someone" part is beyond my scope of discussion. Sad but true...

What happens when we have/achieve that. We want more...That's human psychology. Don't you think? 

Now here I am not saying that we should stop achieving or stop dreaming, it's more like you enjoy what you are doing. Enjoying the process and journey, rather than worrying about the outcomes. Rather than seeking to achieve something, do which might make you feel happy. It doesn't worth it if you don't appreciate your paths leading to it. Coz my dear friends we all know the ultimate destination, getting old. Physically restricted to do many things. And then The End! God knows what after that.

People have achieved many things in life, money, fame, etc. but the happiest one is who enjoyed their journey. Problems will come, things will not go as planned. But once you have a smile on your face and determination to achieve. You will do it. 

What matters is your satisfaction with your journey. Every enjoyable happening, small packets of joy matters. Coz things go on one task to another and then another. It's your attitude, how you face these situations and find enjoyment in them. 

Enjoy now, coz at that stage of life, these enjoyment are the only memories you will have. Good or bad. Live your present.


 

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